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"Liang Yongan: Reading, Traveling and Love" Author: Liang Yongan Publisher: Beijing Times Chinese Bookstore
"Liang Yongan: Reading, Traveling and Love" Author: Liang Yongan Publisher: Beijing Times Chinese Bookstore
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Introduction · · · · · ·
Why do we live such a tiring life?
Why are we becoming more and more confused?
Why do we not even begin to know “who am I”?
We are accused of involution and of lying flat; we are sold loneliness and of love; we are pushed into opposition and of being ruthless...
Some people ask, what’s wrong with this generation of young people?
However, we also want to ask, how should we live correctly?
Liang Yongan, a professor of Chinese Language and Literature at Fudan University, shared in his book Liang Yongan: Reading, Traveling and Love:
Break all authority and love the real world, instead of living a fictional life.
When it comes to love, you must have a firm belief in being single so that you have the energy to give warmth to the other person.
Read more books. Books and human life are connected.
You need to have a bit of a solitary temperament and the ability to be alone.
A good life is to cherish yourself diligently and go against the current, that is, to stick to your own judgment.
Build a life of purpose for yourself and set goals that require effort.
Teacher Liang Yongan cuts into the symptoms of the times among the current youth group from 15 themes including reading, traveling, love, work, women, self, cultivation, loneliness, personality, and social interaction. He hopes to work with young people to break through the single-minded perception of problems and experience the infinite possibilities and diverse values of life.
About the Author · · · · · ·
Leung Wing On -
Humanities scholar, writer and travel photographer from Fudan University.
Table of contents · · · · · ·
How to accept the imperfect and unique self? // 007
How can humans, as social animals, strengthen themselves?
—Talking about the social anxiety and pressure of young men and women // 009
Talking about work. The work is hard and I don’t like it. What should I do? // 017
Is it shameful to slack off? How to be a confident and self-respecting worker // 021
I work, I am happy // 029
About Slash Youth // 032
On personality: Is it still so important to be a good person?
The social rules of the mob // 039
How to define a good person // 043
A good person is a thinking reed // 047
Living with a fearless spirit is the quality of life for a good person // 050
Lying down and happiness Lying down is a new way of thinking about life // 055
Jump out of the present and look at happiness // 057
What kind of life exploration do contemporary young people need // 060
Talking about the social issues of young people, are they all staying at home? // 071
Young people must avoid ineffective social interaction // 077
"Social death" or "social success"? The key is to find the sense of value of "living" // 078
The development of female culture: cultural repression and confinement for thousands of years // 085
Female culture moves forward with twists and turns along with social development // 089
True female culture is to break through the constraints of freedom // 092 Women need these three steps to find their own spiritual value // 097
Are women putting more and more pressure on men? // 102
On Female Writing and the Formation Genes of Female Writers // 109
Everyone can write, but not everyone can be a writer—Writing, talent and diligence // 113
If you don't have talent, can you still write? // 117
Writing also requires letting go - stepping out of the relaxation of life // 119
Talking about love - the decisive moment on the road to love On the road to love, you must seize the decisive moment // 125
The times are complex, how to seize the moment // 128
The instant decision comes from the understanding of life // 130
Love moments in novels and movies // 132
Love, without thinking, is eternal // 137
Why do we love and hate each other?
Women’s Liberation and Dilemma // 143
Love and hatred come from the complexity of human nature // 146 Love is the stock, hatred is the increment // 148
Love is not an ark, people should pursue a higher spiritual space // 149
Being single is actually an honorable thing // 154
Talking about life: What kind of lifestyle should young people have // 161
How to open the world of young people // 166
How to Understand the Strength and Weakness of Young People // 170
How should young people face changes // 177
On Loneliness: The Power of Loneliness The Unspeakable Secret of Loneliness in the Chinese Cultural Context // 183
If you want a free life, you must start with loneliness // 185
People who think are lonely // 186
Loneliness helps you know yourself // 189
Lonely people have a kind of spiritual transcendence // 190
Only by having the ability to be alone can we benefit the public // 193
The great obstacle to loneliness is not letting go // 195
The Power of Loneliness // 197
Talking about reading - Reading a book carefully throughout your life. Books are connected with people's destiny // 203
Reading is the answer to life // 204
Close reading is an attitude // 210
Books open up people's spirituality // 212
Writing is the touchstone of reading // 216
Our Reading Times // 218
My reading suggestions—how to read and what to read // 220
When talking about beauty, we need to have a historical understanding of beauty // 225
Why is the current aesthetic trend towards neutrality? // 229
How to define aesthetics and ugliness // 232
Talking about art Art is not only painting and music, art is originality and freedom - How to define art // 237
The useless beauty of art is more powerful than its usefulness // 239
How should young people learn and understand art // 240 On self-cultivation, which is reflected in the love for nature, human beings and life // 245
How can we show proper respect to each other? // 253
Appendix Liang Yongan answers questions from young readers 100 books recommended by Mr. Liang 100 films recommended by Mr. Liang