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I Wish My Parents Had Read This Book by Philippa Perry Publisher: CITIC Publishing Group
I Wish My Parents Had Read This Book by Philippa Perry Publisher: CITIC Publishing Group
Description
Introduction
The relationship between parents and children has a profound impact on the child's life. However, in many families, this relationship often goes wrong, causing pain and even difficulty in returning to normal.
This is a best-selling child psychology masterpiece written by a senior psychotherapist with 20 years of experience. It has caused a huge sensation in the UK and has been hotly discussed by parents across the country. Even people without children can't wait to buy it to improve their interpersonal relationships.
What kind of book is this? In a nutshell: It uses parenting theory to explain the parent-child relationship, as well as the relationships among family members and all interpersonal relationships around us, so that we can live more freely in relationships. This is a book about "relationships" - our relationship with children, with ourselves, with the past, and with the world around us.
Perhaps you are a busy working parent and your child never seems to sleep, is always crying or screaming, banging pans, poking sockets, and asking for more sugar or more TV. It makes you tired and desperate, and it is difficult to stay calm and rational. You are a good parent, but you can be better: Philippa Perry's bestseller will help you open up new horizons in parenting.
Unlike the average "parenting book," this book doesn't treat raising children as a daunting chore. Children are not a pile of troubles to be dealt with, nor are they a project that needs to be perfected. Parenting is a relationship, and children are individuals to be understood and supported. Ultimately, investing in your children will not only make them better people in the future, but will also make you a better person.
The reading experience is not easy. As the author said, the content of the book will make you feel very uncomfortable, even angry, and you have to sacrifice your self-esteem to read it, because it will make you face up to the mistakes you made in the process of accompanying your children.
Any parent will devote themselves to their children, but good wishes may not bring ideal results. Parents' wish is to make their children happy and let them live a good life, but we often don't realize how we hurt our children unintentionally.
This book analyzes the mistakes we make in parenting, especially those mistakes we never want to make, the deep psychological roots of these mistakes, and how we can make amends and repair the rifts after we make the mistakes.
This book will help you:
Understand how your own upbringing has influenced your parenting style.
See how the parent-child relationship has deteriorated and how to restore it to normal.
Establish a real connection with your child, learn to listen attentively, and raise an emotionally stable child.
Break the vicious cycle, remedy and repair the rifts in time, and avoid replicating the suffering you have experienced in the past on your children.
Learn to deal with your own and your children’s feelings, and let your children grow up in a harmonious relationship.
Learn how to get along with babies, children, teenagers, and adults, so that the parent-child relationship becomes a source of strength for your child throughout his or her life.
Full of wise and sage advice, this is the book every parent wants to read and the book every child wishes their parents had.